Understanding the Sagittarius Man
The Sagittarius man is the classic adventurer, optimistic and full of life, spontaneous, lovable and in search for freedom, who always feels the need to fight for a cause, for a noble purpose. In his heart, there is a great desire to explore and understand the world. Hence appears the mobility, his desire to meet new people and new territories. On the other hand, the Sagittarius man deeply wishes for people to respect him, he wants to be the support of the society, a "pater familiae".
The Sagittarius man has a double nature; he permanently feels torn between conformism, the "bourgeois" tendencies of a man who obeys the law and order, and anarchy, the rebellious tendencies that make him wander. Sometimes the Sagittarius man may go through both phases, like a sheriff from the period of the gold fever, who gives all up and leaves in search for El Dorado, or like an adventurer who decides at one point to settle down and in the end he becomes the sheriff of the town he settled in.
As far as his love life is concerned, almost the same thing can happen. We can meet a mister Sagittarius who used to be a lady-killer in his youth and who decides at a rather "mature" age, after "having explored" many new territories, to get married, even looking to be very pleased with family life. Or the reverse: the Sagittarius man, who got married at an early age and was a model husband, once middle-aged, sets free from the marriage chains and starts looking for the great love.
When in love, the Sagittarius man is a romantic idealist who lets his chosen one believe that she is the most interesting woman. He is attracted to experienced women and thinks that every relationship is a step to his emotional maturity. The Sagittarius man is courteous and generous, overwhelming his sweetheart with special gestures and expensive presents. He is an attractive partner, interesting and energizing, but he gets bored very easily.
How to Win
the Sagittarius Man’s Heart
The Sagittarius man almost instantly responds to the advances of a woman who emanates energy and sex appeal. Make yourself beautiful, show optimism and humour. Let him discover you, follow you, surprise you - the Sagittarius man loves behaving like a boy scout on mission.
Listen to him carefully and only then ask him questions. Invite him somewhere in the open air, preferably by car, and praise his talent as a driver (sometime, the Sagittarius man was famous for his passion for horses and horsemanship; nowadays this passion transferred to cars) while you gently touch his thigh. Find reasons to laugh wholehearted next to him, suggest going to fascinating places together.
Allow him much freedom, avoid being jealous or reproaching. Don’t tell the Sagittarius man he owes you, he hates responsibilities. Avoid taking a motherly care of him because it irritates him and don’t ever tell him that he hasn’t grown up yet.
Friendship is very important to the Sagittarius man so accept his friends and be warm and friendly. Support him in making his dreams come true, share his enthusiasm and never tell him his goals are impossible or unrealistic.
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