Understanding the Pisces Man
The Pisces man is full of a complex and contradictory charm that surprises, baffles, seduces and irritates at the same time. His eyes pass through you without seeing you, giving him a mysterious and far-off look. The Pisces man seems to be living in a parallel world and the details of the day-to-day life bore him.
The Pisces man’s intelligence (amazing, sometimes) listens to enigmatic mechanisms from which logic seems to be excluded. It’s more appropriate to say that he functions according to his intuition. If the Pisces man has a dilemma, he finds it hard to decide because of his impression that all the options are correct and wrong at the same time.
One of the keys to his behaviour is the fact that, to the Pisces man, everything is relative. He has an original relation to the material sphere, especially to money: either he is not interested in it or he is very good at making it; however, he spends it on useless things but with a special significance to him. His value scale is completely different from that of the ordinary people. Trying to define and establish a pattern for the Pisces man is meaningless.
Pisces man’s soul is complex, just like the soul of an alembic that distillates sensations and emotions, dreams and aspirations, passion and fluid impressions. Because of the strong sensorial impact on the Pisces man, love has an important place in his life and he lives it in its sublime form, experiencing the mystic love, or in its most debasing and abject form. Love can be the pandemonium or the heaven of his life.
Deep in his soul, the Pisces man carries an ocean of feelings. An ocean, because his love seems not to know any limits, qualitatively or quantitatively. The fact that the famous Casanova was born under the sign of Pisces shouldn’t surprise us, nor the fact that the equally famous Don Juan Tenorio, although he was not of this sign, had four planets in Pisces at birth!
In his youth, the Pisces man is not aware that through his love he is in fact trying to meet heaven, he is searching for God. However, eventually this secret reveals to him and it is not a wonder that this sign gives so many mystics to the world.
How to Win
the Pisces Man’s Heart
The Pisces man does not usually choose consciously and does not win by fighting; he lets himself be chosen and if you want him, you will have to cover at least half of the distance to him. The Pisces man behaves like a real mystery: he waits to be grasped, to be understood.
Don’t ask the Pisces man precise questions because he will avoid answering them, he will slip by you; however, if he answers you, you will get even more confused. You have to get to know the Pisces man without asking questions, you have to analyse him and guess his reactions, no matter how contradictory or confusing they might be.
In his turn, the Pisces man loves mysterious women. Therefore, if you want to have some control over him, you should never reveal yourself completely to him, neither psychologically nor emotionally. Don’t try to make him jealous, you won’t incite him, you will only disappoint him. If you want to try though, do it in a very subtle way, because with the Pisces man impressions work faster than facts.
A relationship or even marriage to a Pisces man is a dangerous adventure at the same time. There is no certainty with him, there is nothing solid to lean on. If you don’t have enough mental strength, it is better to give up. In this case, you are the one who has to decide because the evasive Pisces man can drag along a faltering relation as long as he is not forced to make a stand.
Still, if you want the Pisces man by your side, let him have his little ivory tower, a space of his own, physically and psychologically, in order to counteract his desire to escape. Keep a mysterious and fluid atmosphere and make him believe that your relation has something magic in it.
Astrologer: Mihaela Dicu, AAR
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