Understanding the Aquarius Man
The Aquarius man is a man of sense, with a kind heart, and this thing is reflected on his face. He attracts with his intelligence, humour and loving eyes.
The Aquarius man is difficult to describe though, because he brings along a world full of contradictions and paradoxes. He has an original thinking, is curious and he likes experiencing, but hates compulsion. He is extremely independent and he always fights against conformism and conservative minds. He loves the human kind as a whole and wants to see it advance... here and now!
One of his paradoxes is that, although the Aquarius man is a progressive and a democrat and he embraces new ideas, coping with unforeseen changes, he sometimes amazes the others with his fix ideas, his stubbornness and rigid attitude to certain subjects.
The Aquarius man cares for friendship very much and he is always ready to help you, even to make sacrifices for his friends. Although he rather lives in a world of ideas, this cerebral man reacts especially to feelings and affection.
Another paradox is that the Aquarius man feels embarrassed when manifesting his own emotions. To him, simple words such as "I love you", "I’m crazy about you" and even "I hate you" are taboos and he may very well never bring flowers to his lover.
The Aquarius man can love very deeply, but he won’t show it very often and under no circumstance will he show it through those little gestures that make relationships so pleasant, although he would give his life for his half. He just doesn’t have the skill of the sentimental subtlety.
The Aquarius man can love with sincerity but it is possible that he will avoid making any commitment and will settle for a number of enchanting love affairs. This is because he is afraid of losing his freedom. The best solution for the Aquarius man is a marriage born of friendship and complicity, to a nice, intelligent woman who is as independent as he is. This marriage will work in the spirit of absolute reciprocal freedom.
How to Win
the Aquarius Man’s Heart
The Aquarius man is not very good at paying court to a woman, nor is he famous for his romanticism. He thinks of his partner as more of a friend and you don’t get emotional with friends, do you?
Still, the Aquarius man is not insensitive to the fair sex. He admires independent women, who are eager to train themselves and emanate optimism and "joie de vivre". The first dates have to be intellectually stimulating, so be careful to read as much as you can, to watch the foreign affairs reports and to be posted regarding the latest discoveries in science.
The Aquarius man loves parties and gatherings where he always makes an impression, so he will enthusiastically accept an invitation to a party. Behave naturally, don’t follow him around, have polite conversations with everybody and don’t get upset if he pays attention to other women too - he finds it so natural that he won’t even understand what you are upset about.
Show much interest in his ideals, projects and actions. Always be honest with an Aquarius man, he sets high value on truth. Don’t be sorrowful if he sometimes forgets to mark the important sentimental occasions, because he has many other ways of compensating the little mistakes.
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