Virgo and Gemini, Earth and Air that does not keep his/her mouth shut...? Gemini people can be bearable but it requires much, much patience from a Virgo.
What is it that attracted you to each other? Maybe it was your common interest in intellectual, cultural, philosophical issues or the fact that both Virgo and Gemini have an active and curious mind. But the Twins are too instable and too impulsive to satisfy a good, tidy, economical Virgo. Not to mention that Gemini spends as if the Apocalypse were coming the next day and is always talking on the phone.
Even if your Gemini is attractive, beautiful and has that young appearance (they all have it, they behave like teenagers even when they are old), after the first passion fades away, there will be few common things left to share.
From Gemini's point of view, Virgo is a little too slow. From your point of view, Gemini crosses the limits too often and (s)he is too thoughtless and agitated, it's like (s)he needs a sedative sometimes... Irresponsible? Adolescent? Well, yes, it's Gemini's description.
Exciting in the beginning, the relationship will come across your different lifestyles quite soon. You want stability and you're a rather possessive native while Gemini people need too much freedom.
Both Virgo and Gemini have many qualities but neither of you appreciates the other's. That is the problem, in a few words. Gemini's apparent irresponsibility and shallowness gets on the nerves of any Earth sign that needs stability, profoundness and seriousness.
For example, have you ever had a kitten? A sweet, little one... as soon as you turn off the light and get in bed to have some rest, the kitten starts playing. And it always finds something that makes a lot of noise and gets your attention, finally making you go crazy.
It's not that it couldn't last, but the question is: how much freedom are you willing to give your Gemini? If you want to keep him/her at home, forbid him/her to talk on the phone and make him/her clean the carpets or do who knows what around the house, your Gemini will just run away never to come back again. It's a mistake to try to keep record of your Gemini, not to say that it is often impossible for anybody else to remember who else a Gemini has visited today. Yesterday's meetings are already a database...
In classical astrology, it is said that the sun signs that are 90 degrees away from each other argue all the time and don't get along at all. Gemini lacks everything you have, and vice versa.
The Twins don't appreciate Virgo's power of concentration, his/her ability to go into details or his/her criticism (they are good at seeing the bigger picture, at planning, but not at carrying things through). Gemini is often aware of the fact that (s)he has almost no practical sense so (s)he will appreciate yours. Gemini lives so intensely in the present that the future is often a strange concept to him/her.
Sexually, Gemini's style is ethereal (like Air), elegant and delicate. But Gemini is often much more detached sentimentally (that means they don't get involved too much...) and even after years of marriage, your Gemini keeps his/her independence: it's like there was an invisible barrier to the Gemini's soul.
The Virgo-Gemini relation can last if Virgo is willing to take a trip to the clouds every now and then, and Gemini manages to be more serious, to think about future more and to break the "protection layer" of the shy Virgo. But after a while each of you will start feeling like something is missing.
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